Do you think most women care more about a man’s wallet size than his heart?

If you watch Rock Of Love 2 and Flava Flav 3 it show you women love money. All those women would marry Bret Michaels or Flava Flav just because their rich. I think if a woman had to decide between dating rich guy who beat her and abused her or a poor guy who treats her like a queen. I gaurantee you 9 out of 10 women would choose the latter.

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22 Responses to “Do you think most women care more about a man’s wallet size than his heart?”

  1. GEM AGAIN! says:

    I dated rich men and I dated poor men…
    I dated men who were abusive and I dated men who were kind..
    I married a man who was a rock…..
    He is as stable as they come…
    He is not rich, but he does have a strength I desperately needed when I married him…He has his moments were he is kind…
    Peace.

  2. Lyanthya says:

    “I think if a woman had to decide between dating rich guy who beat her and abused her or a poor guy who treats her like a queen. I gaurantee you 9 out of 10 women would choose the latter.”

    I hope so, but I think at least 2 women would choose the former (the abusive rich guy) sadly enough.

  3. Izy says:

    er…no y are you basing it on these movies? movies are made for entertainment..although I can certainly say there a women out there, like that, but dont think all women are like that.

    I mean come on..remember titanic? that shows the opposite.

    Anyway i’d choose a guy solely based on how much he cares about me, not his wallet. Money cant give you spiritual happiness only materials.

  4. vintner says:

    Oh my gosh, you’re going to rot your sharky brain watching all that television!

    I can get my own money, but I can’t easily get over being beaten. I’ll take what’s behind door number 2.

  5. KatB says:

    I just want to know when they are gonna learn that “Every Rose Has It’s Thorn” is not the only song by Poison.

  6. Jenn says:

    well a lot of girls are just gold diggers and i dont understand how they could live like that

  7. U Wish says:

    I have to hold on to some faith in humanity and believe that it wouldn’t be MOST women who would choose to lower themselves to staying with a rich man who beat them, but I can certainly tell you from experience that SOME women will do just that.

  8. Gold Digger says:

    if hes rich an beats her… she cud get him arrested… devorce him… an take all his mony…. not all that bad of a deal…

  9. Dream Weaver says:

    If you watch those same shows, it will show YOU what men care about: fake breasts and appearances over heart. So, as many men care more about a woman’s breast size than her heart as women care about a man’s wallet size over his heart. This is the truth.

  10. Sean says:

    lol, vintner, your too sweet to get beaten up, nobody would have reason to!(even if they did, i’d stick up for you!)

    Well, tbh that’d be a womans choice, would it not? if she wanted to stay with an abusive husband because she liked money, thats her problem.

    Saying most women care about money and jack else in a relationship is just as dumb as saying most men care about sex and jack ellse in a relationship.

    Tis a tiny portion of the populace, and you WILL find some women who are like this (looking at you Gold Digger)

    Trust me Gold Digger, you’ll find that not ALL courts will give you all his money, at most you’d only get half, and you need 20 years of marriage to get that

    Your strategy is a little flawed(doesn’t really matter though, any guy who’s smart enough to get rich knows to stay away from B*tches like you)

  11. bfsbride2008 says:

    I have never really had anything extravagant when it comes to material things because i have always chose love over money. I don’t need money to be happy.

  12. TERA says:

    Your theory doesn’t explain why I stayed married for 15 years to my ex-husband who was abusive and financially unstable. I wasn’t after his money. (He really didn’t have much. We barely got by.) I loved him.

  13. book_worm22 says:

    Yeah, if those 9 out of 10 women were gold diggers.
    That’s just a generalized stereotype. Most women don’t care how much a man makes, as long as he isn’t a “moocher” himself.
    That’d be like a woman saying that 9 out of 10 guys only date them to get sex. You’d probably refute that by saying that most guys are honestly not that shallow.
    Same concept applies here—not all women are that shallow.
    Remember too, that those are tv shows, and they cast people who are shallow and only in the thing to get their 15 minutes of fame. That’s why the relationships never last, and you see Flavor of Love: 3.

    ” I think if a woman had to decide between dating rich guy who beat her and abused her or a poor guy who treats her like a queen. I gaurantee you 9 out of 10 women would choose the latter.” —for your own reference, “latter” means the option #2; “former” was the word you were looking for here.

  14. Ashleigh says:

    Reality is not something you watch at the movies or, for the most part, on television. If a man was so rich that he could commit suicide by jumping off his wallet, and dying from the fall, some where some one would think he was the perfect man. If a man doesn’t have two cents to rub together most people would say that he was a looser. But there would be a woman who would love him, not for what he has, but rather for who he is.

  15. Laela(Layla) says:

    I knew two women the first married a rich guy who treated her like crap with a capital letter “C”. The other married a poor man who treated her like a queen; only thing is she wanted to be married to the first guy and be treated like crap just to have what his wife has got. Bonkers in the belfry I tell you.

  16. logan s says:

    Why are you basing anything to do with love and companionship from reality television? That makes no kind of sense. Yeah there are gold diggers but in the end they never get what the really want.

    The best way to marry a rich dude, if that’s your desire, is to be rich yourself. Like attracts like. And if either Flav or Bret Michaels had any kind of real cheddar they wouldn’t be whoring themselves on VH1, tv for the hasbeens.

  17. Galactic Emperor says:

    Of course, read the Manipulated Man. Google search it, it’s available online. It explains how women think. They only value men on the basis of their wealth and status, everything else is secondary. In essence, they are only interested in what men can do for them financially.

    Ignore what women say and judge what they respond to– notice how women will deny this (out of shame, of course), yet you will still see women chasing after rich men. It’s rooted in their nature. This is why women almost always marry up (you will NEVER see women chasing after poor men regardless of their personality). Check out these statistics too– 75% of women would marry for money: http://women.timesonline.co.uk/tol/life_and_style/women/relationships/article3166507.ece?print=yes&randnum=1200101641859

    What more proof do you need?

  18. patricia m says:

    some girl maybe like that ! i think it’s because of they desperately need it,or maybe they think it’s okey for them to be hurt, they just going to revenge on the man’s money!!! but hey don’t you judge a girl just because you’ve watch that movie! be fair!!!!!! not all girls are like that

  19. Vianka says:

    I don’t watch those shows, but I don’t doubt that some women go for a man just because he has money. I can’t imagine that a woman would be attracted to Flavor Flav for his looks or intelligence.

    I couldn’t help but fall madly in love with my man because he still accepted me even after meeting my mother and sister. It takes a strong man with a very big heart to do that!

  20. PowChickaWow says:

    No. This is just a stereotype perpetuated by media dogma. Most women, care about having someone special, whom with they can share their thoughts and their experiences.

    “No man is an island”-human nature

    Edit: Well, the bitter Galactic Emperor found a source written by someone who is as bitter and narrow-minded as he is. Make sure your sources are reliable. The article wich was featured, is only based on one study.

    In order for theories to be valid, the study must be reproduced by several scientists on a larger population demographic under the same control variables.

  21. Tracey says:

    If you watch Rock Of Love 2 and Flava Flav 3 it can also lead to brain rot, glorifying the lowest common denominator of people and leading you to false conclusions.

    Turn off the bad TV and read a book that can’t be bought in the supermarket.

  22. Hef says:

    Of course they do. And the way they go about it was made clear by Collette Dowling in her book “The Cinderella Complex”.

    Every statistic in the book points dead straight to the fact women prefer to bludge off a man.

    27.4% of females 15 years and over work full time. 22.6% do at least one hour of paid work per week. 50% of females do nothing.

    85% of surveyed females strongly disagreed with the statement “It doesn’t matter who earns the money as long as we’re happy”.

    7 years after gaining a degree 50% of women are not employed in their chosen profession. After 10 years 66% are dependent on men.

    Women won’t do overtime.

    Single Low Income Males (SLIMS) are least likely to gain a female partner. The more money a man earns the more likely he is to be married. The yet even more money a man earns the more likely he is to stay married.

    VERY few women with assets will marry without a pre-nup.

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